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If you need help

These lines are free, confidential, and staffed around the clock. You do not need to be in crisis to use them, and you do not need to have the right words ready.

If someone is in immediate danger

Call 911 or go to the nearest emergency department. If a new or expectant mother is experiencing delusions, hallucinations, or thoughts of harming herself or her baby, that is a medical emergency — do not wait for a scheduled appointment, and do not leave her alone.

24/7 support lines

Someone will pick up

988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline

988

Call or text 988 from anywhere in the US. Free and confidential, 24/7, for suicidal thoughts, emotional distress, or worry about someone else. 988lifeline.org

National Maternal Mental Health Hotline

1-833-TLC-MAMA

1-833-852-6262. Call or text, 24/7, staffed by professional counsellors specifically for pregnant and postpartum people. English and Spanish, with interpreters in more than 60 languages. TTY users dial 711 then the number.

Postpartum Support International HelpLine

1-800-944-4773

Call or text. Press 1 for Español, 2 for English. Text in English to 800-944-4773, or en Español to 971-203-7773. A trained volunteer returns your message; this is a support and referral line rather than an emergency line. postpartum.net

Organisations

Where to go next

None of these are affiliated with the Musgrove Family Fund, and none of them receive anything from it. They are listed because they do the work.

If you are the partner, parent, or friend

Most postpartum psychosis is identified by someone other than the person experiencing it. That is not incidental — it is a feature of the illness. Someone who has lost insight cannot reliably report that they have lost insight.

Which means the useful things are unglamorous:

  • Watch sleep. Not sleeping for a night or two, without feeling tired, is one of the earliest and most reliable signals. Take it seriously on its own.
  • Ask directly. "Are you having any thoughts about hurting yourself or the baby?" Asking does not plant the idea. Not asking is how it stays unsaid.
  • Do not negotiate with the delusion, and do not argue with it either. Stay calm, stay with her, and get clinical help the same day.
  • Go with her. To the appointment, to the emergency department. Bring what you have seen, because she may not be able to describe it.
  • Say what you are afraid of out loud to a clinician. Vague concern gets a follow-up appointment; specific concern gets a response.

If you are grieving

Some people arrive at a story like this one because it touches something of their own. If reading about this case has brought up a loss — a child, a pregnancy, a person you could not reach in time — the lines at the top of this page are for that too. There is no threshold you have to meet to call one.

Phone numbers and services on this page were verified on August 22, 2026. Services change — if you find a number here that no longer works, it should be corrected immediately rather than left in place.

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